The festival of Tayi or Hartalika Tritiya falls on the third day of Shukla paksha of the month of Bhadrapad, a day before Ganesh Chaturthi or Chavathi. Mother Goddess Parvathi or Gauri as she is also called – is the mother of Lord Ganesha and hence worshipped a day prior to Chavathi. Also known as Gauri tritiya or Vayana Pooja it is a festival which runs as a hereditary ritual only in certain families in South Canara and North Canara . Those who don’t have it as custom consider it as a blessing to receive the Vayana ! It’s considered a holy and auspicious occasion for married ladies or ‘Savashini / Sumangalis ! Sometimes assisted by priests – they perform it to seek the Mother’s grace and benedictions for progeny and also for longevity of the husband, .
A few days prior to Vayana Pooja, coconuts are dehusked and cleaned thoroughly. The number of coconuts used in the pooja is always in odd numbers the minimum being 5 and no limit to the maximum. Two days prior to the Vayna Pooja, kajal which is used to anoint the coconut is prepared at home. A plate containing water is placed on a lamp lit with pure ghee and the carbon formed is collected by scraping it off with a knife. A drop of ghee or pure castor oil is added and kajal thus prepared.
A day prior to the pooja, women have a bath including washing their hair , and the more orthodox do so without partaking any food too before anointing the Vayana . A no-garlic -no onion diet is followed by all during these days . The coconut is washed in turmeric water. Two of the holes in the coconut are anointed with kajal and the third one with Kumkum. . Also some kumkum is mixed with oil and lips are drawn with it A line is drawn with chalk running through the centre of the coconut. some mark it with dots and some with black beads stringed on a thread . All the coconuts are thus kept ready in preparation in the deva kuda or a secluded corner in the house.
On Vayana Pooja day a portrait of Lord Mahesh & Godess Gowri ( in the ancestral home only ) is kept on a Poleru ( Plate )along with veedos (betelnut leaves ) , flowers , kumkum , cucumber , a piece of sugar cane and a sheaf of paddy (Bhaatha )! Then the elder of the house will carry it in his head and circumbulate (go around ) the tulsi plant.. Another elder will mix kumkum & haldi in water in a small plate and wave it before the Gods ( Latti Udak Uvalche ). Then they are brought into the puja room and seated , Kumkum is applied to Goddess Gowri’s forehead as a bindi and kajal to her eyes .Also bangles are kept by her side with the help of a stick, and the portraits decorated with flowers ! In front of them banana leaves are spread in a line in the pooja room. A handful of rice is put on the leaf, and the decorated coconut (Vayana ) is then placed above it. A lamp or diya ( usually of silver or clay filled with ghee or oil ) is then placed above it . .This pic is courtesy my friend – Veena Mallya and Co-author of this blog
Tamboola, flowers, banana and a piece of sugar cane is placed beside each of the Vayanas. Along side all the Vayana is placed a large fresh cucumber, haldi, kumkum, sindoor, and the Vayana daru or a multi coloured thread with 5 tiny black beads woven in between as in the pic below !
Here is a pic of the Vayana daru- the red thread at the bottom right – courtesy my friend & Co-author of this blog – Asha Radhakrishna Shenoy
A lot of flowers like shenvthi ( marigolds ), mogarein (Jasmine ) and bhingoru ( arecanut flower fronds ) are also used . Traditionally Chane Panchakdayi, Cheppi kheeri, Cheppi bhajji are offered as Naivedya ! According to folk- lore Gauri had forgotten to add salt to both the kheeri and bhajji. and hence to this day these dishes are made without salt ..The naivedya is placed in front of the Vayana, all the lamps on them are lit, the shlokas , the sixteen names of Gauri are recited and agarbathi and aarthi waved to the Vayanas. then they go around it (circumbulate ) and bow ( Namaskaru ). While making patholis for Naivedya – 5 of them are made without salt and in one of them a coin is kept .
Those staying away from the ancestral home & who are unable to participate – too celebrate in a small way at their own homes . A kalash is filled with water , little kumkum , haldi , a flower petal & camphor , On it 5 mango leaves are kept and then a coconut is kept and placed on a small mound of rice .It is adorned with flowers and a chain &bangles too . Here only Godu phovu is made for naivedya . A minimum number of 5 vayanas are placed and offered pooja .
This pic is courtesy of my FB friend – Asha Radhakrishna Shenoy & co-author of this blog
The lady performing the pooja then ties the Vayana daru around her neck along with the mangalsutra and the earlier one removed . Some keep it in a small gold box along with the mangalsutra to wear it for the whole year . Two of the Vayanas are then kept aside for the Kuldevatha and the kuldevi of that particular household. Then first vayna is given to a Brahmachari ( Brahmacharika vaina) .The next two is always given to the mother along with the lit Vayanas. The Vayanas are always given into the hands and not the saree Pallu ( Honthi ) with the Vayana facing the giver . The one who receives it should be sitting down .Not to forget the husband ! ..he is also given one and his blessings also sought by touching his feet ! If the pooja is conducted by a bhatmaam ( purohit ) then he also receives one .
Ladies who have both parents and in-laws living are the lucky ones who are then given the Vayana also called ‘jallelein Vayana’ (vayana with diya ). The diya should face the giver . The remaining Vayana is given to the elders and other suhasinis in the family who have been invited for the pooja. Vayana distribution outside the house is not done on that day. From the next day onwards it begins and is to be completed before Nopi or Ananth Chaturdashi though some do continue giving till Punnav. They should be given out before the coconuts dry out ! In some families the eldest daughter-in law will add the number of Vayanas of her late Suvasini mother-in-law too to her own !! After offering pooja to all the vayanas , she will distribute them among her elders & other married women.
During Visarjan at night , the portraits are taken to the tulsi plant .A small hole is made in the soil and the salt-less patholi along with the “Kanik ” is buried in it . Then the next day the portraits and the old Vayana doru are dropped into a well or in a river or flowing water nearby !
The first Vayana puja for the bride is usually immediately after the marriage in the hall itself after all the other rituals are over ! This is if the bridegroom’s family has the tradition of Vayana puja .
This pic is courtesy my FB friend Soumya Pai K of her first Vayana puja!
A 101 coconuts are kept as Vayanas & offered pooja . Then these are given to the women guests one by one by the bride and gets blessed by touching their feet . This time the mother-in-law receives the lit vayanas first . Then it is given to the bride’s mother and then to the women who have both their parents & in-laws alive ! Rest to all the married women ! All other times the mother always receives the first vayana from her daughter ! Only after this ritual is over can the newly weds partake of the wedding feast !
After the wedding for the first Vayana Pooja all the coconuts and other materials required for the pooja is sent from bride’s home every year.! Nowadays when people are living far off , only the money required to buy these materials is sent..
Lunch for all the women attending the pooja is as per choice of that particular household and is not as elaborate as that during Chavathi. Usually if the late mother in law was a suvasini – a keli panna jevan is also symbolically given to her and all suvasinis too !
Here is a typical jevan for Vayana pooja !
Vayana Pooja Javan…Undo , naivedya fruits , panchkadai , Godu pohu , karathey and batato nonche , khotto , phagila phodi , kelya phodi , patholi , cheppe bhaji ,thavshe pachadi , sukke , pathrado , venti gashi ,sheeth , saaru , cheppe kheeri , madgane and thaak
Here is another keli panna jevan for vayana pooja by my friend – Shamala Bhat
Vayana Jevan – Jeev kadagi, Phagila , Nendra bale, Kanagha phodi’s, beans upkari,,, Chana ghashi , Gajabaje, Ambat , Kosambari, Cheppi kheeri, Patholi, Dalithoy, Kolambo , DoodhPak, sheeth, , Ubbati & nonche . Night dinner will be only phalar ie is without rice .
The significance of this pooja is to symbolically rever the Mother Goddess and the mother in a family and to give respect & gratitude to all the women of a family .
This post has been compiled with inputs by members of our FB group KKAJ ! . Thanks to you all especially friends and my co-authors ! There may be variations from family to family ! We have just detailed in a general way ! Hope this will help you and the future generations to keep up this great tradition !
Konkani Khann Anik Jevan 
Beautifully presented with full details.
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OOOO thank U sooo much Jayakka 🙂
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Timely update… thank u Usha and friends..
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welcome 🙂
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Such a detailed description about how and why the festival is celebrated…lucky are the newly weds and young generations who can get all such info with click of a button…great work by the team KKAJ 🙂
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yes indeed ! 🙂
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This is right way to educate the younger generation about our tradition and culture.
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Thank You 🙂
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Good work.. pls make another post with the exact procedures will be of great help for us who R abroad n dono how to start n finish the Pooja
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we have given the full procedure for the pooja …though in a general way! ..as the rituals differ from family to family – we cannot the exact procedure for each !
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Super information. Thanks
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The description of Pooja is very elaborate. Would like to know the procedure of the Pooja also, it would be very helpful to our community who are unaware of the procedure.
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I simply loved this post. Apart from all the dishes to be prepared, the post talks elaborately of the pooja and its conduct with appropriate significance. Its a defining pooja for GSBs. Such posts help us so much to be connected to our roots. Kudos Ushakka and Asha akka for such a fantastic compilation. Keep up the good work, it is increasing your blessing listing!
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Where can I find the pooja book online?
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thank you
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we have given the full procedure for the pooja …though in a general way! ..as the rituals differ from family to family – we cannot the exact procedure for each !
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thank you 😀
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try the mypanditg or mantraonline sites
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This post is really helpful…
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thank you !
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If possible will surely post ..thanks for suggesting !
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I wanted to know where I can get Vayana Daar and Vayana Samagiri in Mangalore
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you can try the shops near the temple
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especially in Car street & shop opposite Flower market
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If we cannot perform Pooja during chauti, When can we perform vayna Pooja ? In the coming months
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You can perform the Vayana Pooja during Navarathri if you were unable to do during Chauthi
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Thanks maam.. is there any particular day during navarathri??
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you will have to consult your family priest for the timings
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Beautifully described… Do u know any songs of vaynu.. my mil used to something like this vaynava tegudu Ko Mangala Gowri.. I don't remember rest of d lyrics.. if u know kindly help me.. or any songs or Slokas related to vayna Pooja.. ty in advance
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Hi All, there is a Vaina Pooja song which my mom used to sing. Does anyone have that song?
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We dont have this pooja and her place but it was interesting to read it and know the significance of the pooja.. Thanks for the detailed writeup..
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Very good information.Can mooga ghashi be prepared on vainna puja.
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In south Canara mooga ghashi is not prepared for Vaina Pooja..in north Canara moonga ghashi is prepared for all auspicious functions.
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Glad to know you liked this
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Very good info… especially for the gen next to keep our tradition alive..Would also like to know the basic shloka/prarthana chanted for vayana pooja. Thanks in advance..
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Do we keep green Bangles for the vain puja or black ones? I am asking coz I have seen few families keeping black instead of green Bangles. It really surprised me as at my mother's place for vain Pooja we used to have only green Bangles.
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I cannot understand the significance of using black colour Bangles instead of green as I thought that only green is used by sowbhagyavatis.
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Yes Black bangles are also used !
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